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Welcome to my blog - My name is Jim Bull and I share this information with you in the hopes of helping you or a friend or family member in some way. Here you'll find motivational material, my views of life and some background info from my past. I help others live the life they've always wanted through the sharing of information regarding all areas of life.Please let me know how I can help you. Ezekiel 36:26

Friday, September 12, 2014

What Are You Looking For

Hi all,

My name is Jim Bull and I am a blogger, Realtor, part time mentor and life coach living in Lancaster, Pa.

My topic today is - What are you looking for? 

Whether it be in your personal, spiritual or professional life, have you really stopped to think about it lately?

How about this one - if you know what you are looking for, and it is different than what you have, what are you doing to achieve it?

I myself just turned the half century mark and as I reflect on everything I've achieved in that time, I still find myself at times looking back and thinking, what if?

What if I would have chased those dreams, how would life be different? What about today? What is it that you wished you had or would have done differently?

Is it too late, I say never. 

What would it take to help you take action? Who would it take and what would be the outcome?

I challenge you this weekend to reflect, to talk to your kids, to talk to your spouse, your pastor, your best friend, maybe a coach.

What would it take to motivate you to chase what you are looking for and then, what would your life be like?

As always, feedback is encouraged.

Friday, August 22, 2014

Back To School - Or Not

Wow - can you believe it's that time of the year already? And I apologize because this is probably going to be a long one but I'll ask you to ride it out with me because I don't believe there is anything more important than the education of our youth.

I've noticed that some schools are already back in session. When I was a kid we never started until after Labor Day. Then when my children were in school they always began the last week of August but this is getting ridiculous

Of course its been a big debate for years, should we send them year round or keep it the way it is?

I'd imagine there are different motives involved on that particular discussion, some would say its to provide them more time to learn and then others would say its easier on the parents. I would ask, who does it benefit?

Of course its been a leading topic for years. How do we improve our education system in America?  I can imagine its a big job, but I also believe that they have it all wrong.

I for one never had any motivation for school much after the elementary years and I could say the same applies for both my children, how about yours?

Have you ever heard the saying "reading, writing and rithmetic"?

I remember getting phone calls home from school from teachers, "your child is disrupting my class and they don't want to do the work". Duh, does anybody out there really believe that we as humans want to spend 12 years in school learning something that we have no interest in what so ever? If you do, please contact me, I'd love to hear your thoughts on the subject.

So, let me stop here before we go any further. I believe there are a lot of great people out there who become teachers to help our youth. But I'll ask you all, do you believe our current education system is on track?

That as well is a loaded question as I guess that would depend on your beliefs. And maybe that's the real problem, there are many differing beliefs on success and what is right and what is wrong hence I'll go back to our original discussion - what are we teaching our kids and how are we doing it.

I've said for years that probably one of the easiest solutions would be to pair kids with teachers with the same interests and personality types. Again, people skills aren't a subject in school so some of you may not agree with or understand that train of thought.

Let me make it simple - there are four main personality types. Some compliment others and some do not. In today's system we group kids together by their test scores, not by their interests or personality habits.

So now we have a room full of 25 children who are all motivated differently by their personality's and one teacher who is expected to try and get all these kids to "want to learn" and what we get is a disaster. Numbers dictate that the 5-6 kids in that room who have the same personality traits of that teacher will learn and the rest will fail.

Lets break it down - if you're the teacher and your personality type is "calculating and cautious" and you are a child and you have a "life of the party" type personality, guess what? The teacher is going to believe that child doesn't care and doesn't want to learn. It is far from the truth, but because that person has different interests and wants to be a rock star and not a scientist, it doesn't make them a bad kid or a failure. It just means they don't care about calculus and your method of teaching it.

The opposite is true - if you have a future NASA engineer in your class and you as a teacher have the rock star mentality trapped in the body of a teacher, then you're future engineer is going to feel bored and unchallenged and again will fail your class.

Then there's the subject of grades. For 12 years we go to school and are forced to memorize things we don't care about just for the sake of getting a good grade. Yes, in elementary school we are all excited. We're learning to read and write and naming state capitols and all that cool stuff. Our brains are developing and we just want to learn anything we can.

But as we progress into the middle and high school years they tell us we need to learn a foreign language or two. That we need all this advanced math or science, maybe we need to know what a compound thingy majingy is so we can write better (pretty cool coming from a writer huh). But all you really want to do is grow up and be the best auto body mechanic you can be, or maybe you want to work with kids with disabilities but your forced to take wood shop and learn square roots.

Then, because we have no interest in what they are teaching or we don't understand the teaching methods we get a failing grade and we continue to get failing grades for the next six or so years of our life and all we've really learned is that we are a failure. Then they tell you that you did just good enough to graduate, thanks and we'll see you later, I hope your a success.

Does anybody else get this or am I just that failure that they taught me to become for the first quarter of my life? Wow!!!

Any wonder our economy is lagging and we have so many unemployed and homeless people. 75% of the population is taught they are failures and we don't give them the skills they really need to be productive.

So I hear you, don't complain without offering the solution. There are many but for today's subject my suggestion would be to yes, teach them the basics in elementary school but also learn their interests, what their good at and what motivates them to learn. I read in a book lately that only the student can educate, the teachers job is to motivate and mentor. Then we pair them with teachers of like personalities and interests and let the student do the rest.

Curriculum will also need to be addressed and I'll get into that in my next blog entry. I'll give you a little sneak peak into that, it involves the three R's, a little black book that was written a long time ago and some of the best classics ever.

Until then, thanks for reading and your comments are welcome. You can post replies below and please share this with your friends. Group discussions and opinions can be some of the best forms of learning there is.

After all, what do I know, I am part of the 75% ?

Saturday, August 2, 2014

Training Is Temporary - Development Is Permanent

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Training is temporary - development is permanent.

Unfortunately most training we get in life is just that, temporary. It happens to us all through our school years. We are forced to memorize things so we can pass tests and 9 times out of 10 we only retain the information long enough to pass those tests.

Maybe you've experienced this in your career too? You buy into a program or attend some high dollar seminar for the weekend where they make you stay up for 15 hours straight and cram 20 hours of info down your throat. Then they give you a workbook and send you home expecting their training to last. In most cases its great info but we are so overwhelmed with the weekend that we throw that baby up on a shelf never to be opened again.

Its been determined that the best way to retain information is to get it in small tidbits on a regular basis. To read and to listen to it over and over again as part of our daily lifestyles until it sticks.

How about you - which option above do you think you would prefer?

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Friday, July 25, 2014

I've Learned...

more great tidbits from: www.thefishwrapperonline.com 

Quotes From Readers

I've learned that you can tell a lot about a man by the way he handles these three things: 
a rainy day, lost luggage and a tangled cord. - Age 52

I've learned that just when I get my room the way I like it, Mom makes me 
clean it up. - Age 13

I've learned that brushing my child's hair is one of life's greatest pleasures. - Age 29

I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you miss them terribly 
after they die. - Age 53

I've learned that although it's hard to admit it, I'm secretly glad my
parents are strict with me. - Age 15

I've learned that I still have a lot to learn. - Age 92

What have you learned?

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

10 Most Important Things

Borrowed from the Fish Wrapper - Author Unknown

The special feeling that makes you feel all warm and wonderful

Treating others as well as you would like to be treated

To be grateful for all the good things life has to offer

The full enjoyment of each moment, a smiling face

The ability to let things be without anger

The joy of giving without thought of receiving

The quality of always telling the truth

The purity of doing whats right, no matter what

The essence of feeling another's pain, while easing their hurt

The reward for living the 10 most important things

Sunday, July 20, 2014

Begin With the End in Mind.

Too many times when I begin a new project or when I'm trying to accomplish something I usually think about - what do I have to do first.

Well I have to tell you that this is the first mistake that I or you could make when trying to accomplish anything. Whether it be to win the big race, to get a date or to succeed in life.

Let me ask you this.

Which end of this donkey is really the end? Is it the rear end, or the front end.

You'll have to decide for yourself but the moral is - to begin with the end in mind.

If you want to be a national champion motocross racer then you need to start by seeing yourself standing on the podium with the crowd going wild. The press is there, you're mom is crying and your dad is telling everyone, that's my boy or girl.

If you begin visualizing this over and over in your mind, your body and your brain will take over and take the actions needed to make it happen.

It apply's to any area of life:

Picture getting the new job
Driving the new car
Walks on the beach with your sweet heart...

No matter what the goal - see it first, then the results will come.

Friday, July 18, 2014

Where Did You Go To School

I know - most people end up going to university or college. I myself, it seems went to adversity.


difficulties; misfortune.
"resilience in the face of adversity"

synonyms:           misfortune, ill luck, bad luck, trouble, difficulty, hardship, distress, disaster, suffering, affliction, sorrow, misery, tribulation, woe, pain, trauma; More...

Can anybody relate?

Today was just one of those days where much adversity came my way. Actually it seems most of the week was that way. 

Today's events weren't a complete surprise but it wouldn't have been the way I would have planned it.

Anyhow there's only one thing to do. It's time to graduate from adversity and move on to victory. Sometimes

I wonder if we don't bring our own luck? 

Here's to victory for all and better roads ahead. Truth is its all in what you make it.

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

I Did It

Yes -  I did give this blog the right name years ago.

If I can do it, you can too. Applies to just about everything in life...

It helps a lot that Goggle makes life so da#5n easy. See you soon.

Talk About Being Challenged

Hey All,

It's great to be back. I had to make some changes to my email account a while back because of one of my businesses and I haven't been able to find my way back until today.

Anyhow, I won't be long tonight because now I have to log back out and see if I can find my new info that made me lose my original info and then come back again - get it?

Me either - but either way you'll know if you see me around I have it figured out and if you don't well, you know.

Have a great night and I hope to see you soon.